{"id":2582,"date":"2016-07-12T05:30:01","date_gmt":"2016-07-12T04:30:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/?p=2582"},"modified":"2024-05-11T22:33:57","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T21:33:57","slug":"teenagers-dad-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/teenagers-dad-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"Teenagers who feel they matter to dad have better mental health"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<h3><strong>To protect teenagers\u2019 mental health, we should also focus on relationships with fathers and stepfathers.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Teenagers who think they don\u2019t matter much to their fathers or stepfathers face significant risks to their mental health, according to our study of 392 13- to 16-year-olds from communities in Arizona and California in the United States.<\/p>\n<p>Mattering to fathers predicted future mental health over and above mattering to mothers.<\/p>\n<p>The risk to <a href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/young-people-mental-health-covid19-hispanic-nonbinary\/\">adolescent mental health<\/a> was also independent of similar, already well-known, levels of risk associated with intimate partner violence between parents as well as frequent and intense but non-violent parental conflict (nagging, arguing, getting angry, and yelling).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cAlthough they may tell you that you\u2019re old fashioned, they still want you there. Drive-by fathering doesn\u2019t typically work well for adolescents.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The findings of this study, spearheaded by my graduate student Go Woon Suh, should prompt searching questions. We should re-examine how fathers are expected to engage in adolescents\u2019 lives. Our society\u2019s expectations are often dictated by working practices, family norms and parental separation. This study suggests that, because our policies and practices often limit fathers\u2019 engagement, we may be missing opportunities to make children more resilient, and thus to protect them from depression, anxiety, aggression, delinquency and <a href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/antisocial-behavior-violence-men\/\">behavioral problems<\/a> at school.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_79_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #121c4e;color:#121c4e\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #121c4e;color:#121c4e\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/teenagers-dad-mental-health\/#Doing_things_together_is_a_sign_of_mattering_to_dad_and_mom\" >Doing things together is a sign of mattering to dad and mom<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/teenagers-dad-mental-health\/#Mattering_to_dad_is_uniquely_important\" >Mattering to dad is uniquely important<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/teenagers-dad-mental-health\/#Loveless_marriage_can_also_risk_damaging_teenagers_mental_health\" >Loveless marriage can also risk damaging teenagers&#8217; mental health<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/teenagers-dad-mental-health\/#Broader_approach_needed_to_support_fatherhood_and_couple_love\" >Broader approach needed to support fatherhood and couple love<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Doing_things_together_is_a_sign_of_mattering_to_dad_and_mom\"><\/span>Doing things together is a sign of mattering to dad and mom<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>These findings fit with our earlier findings (lead author Matthew Stevenson) that how much adolescents think they matter to their parents is closely linked to how much time they spend doing things together. Time spent interacting at this age is often overlooked not only by researchers, but also by parents and sometimes by therapists and mental health professionals, as well as by family policy. However, we found that adolescents often carefully monitor how much time they spend with their parents and they draw conclusions partly from that calculation about how important they are to parents. So, although they may tell you that you\u2019re old-fashioned, they still want you there. Drive-by fathering doesn\u2019t typically work well for adolescents.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mattering_to_dad_is_uniquely_important\"><\/span>Mattering to dad is uniquely important<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The perception that they matter to mom, of course, is also important to teenagers. But our study found a unique association between mattering to fathers at age 14 and good mental health <a href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/links-between-toddlers-screen-time-and-language-development\/\">development<\/a> at 16, over and above mattering to mothers. So, when fathers are put in the equation, mattering to mothers on its own no longer predicted mental health. We don\u2019t know why this is the case. However, we found that this \u2018mattering\u2019 was equally significant whether it was related to resident biological fathers or to resident stepfathers. Mattering to each was associated with better mental health. So both are important for adolescents\u2019 well-being. In a previous study (lead author Clorinda Velez, n\u00e9e Schenck), we have found that the perception of mattering to a biological father isn\u2019t any less important to teenagers just because they feel that they matter to a stepfather. The quality of both relationships is related to adolescent mental health.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Loveless_marriage_can_also_risk_damaging_teenagers_mental_health\"><\/span>Loveless marriage can also risk damaging teenagers&#8217; mental health<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Our study also found a fourth predictor of poorer teenage mental health \u2013 in addition to having a father or stepfather who seems not to care about you, intimate partner violence between parents, and non-violent parental conflict. It was the security that parents felt in their own relationship, measured from questions about love and affection, spending time together, getting along well, relationship problems, and thoughts about divorce. In other words, living with parents in a loveless marriage is an additional contributor to poorer adolescent mental health, over and above the other three factors.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cMattering to fathers was equally significant whether it was related to resident biological fathers or to resident stepfathers. Mattering to each was associated with better mental health. So both are important for adolescents\u2019 well-being.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We can\u2019t firmly say that any of these four predictors actually <em>causes<\/em> poor mental health. However, ours was a longitudinal study, monitoring the same adolescents from age 13 to age 16. This approach increases the likelihood of identifying a causal relationship while at the same time making it possible to rule out other explanations such as family income, parents\u2019 education and parents\u2019 personalities.<\/p>\n<p>A further striking feature of our study was that the findings largely held true for both boys and girls, for both biological fathers and stepfathers, and for both ethnic groups involved in the study \u2011 Anglo-Americans and Mexican-Americans.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Broader_approach_needed_to_support_fatherhood_and_couple_love\"><\/span>Broader approach needed to support fatherhood and couple love<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Our finding about the warmth of couple relationships strengthens the case that we need a broader approach to maintaining <a href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/screen-time-for-children\/\">young people\u2019s welfare<\/a> with respect to their family context. We\u2019ve tended to focus on protecting young people from witnessing violence and verbal conflict between parents, but we sometimes overlook the importance of nurturing inter-parental relationships and children\u2019s relationships with fathers and stepfathers.<\/p>\n<p>The message to policy makers and practitioners is that our findings reveal a need to expand the traditional focus on parental conflict, intimate partner violence, and relationships with mothers to include additionally the emotional quality and security of marital relationships and children\u2019s relationships with their fathers and stepfathers.<\/p>\n<div class=\"retrofit-references\">\n<h4>References<\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 1.8em;\"><em>\u00a0Suh GW, Fabricius WV, Stevenson MM, Parke RD, Cookston JT, Braver SL &amp; Saenz D (2016), <a href=\"http:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fdev0000204\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Effects of the inter-parental relationship on adolescents\u2019 emotional security and adjustment: The important role of fathers<\/a>, Developmental Psychology, 52.10<\/em><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To protect teenagers\u2019 mental health, we should also focus on relationships with fathers and stepfathers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":60,"featured_media":2585,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5774,5773,438],"tags":[45,463,35,1283,5753,33,27],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2582"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/60"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2582"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2582\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20294,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2582\/revisions\/20294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2585"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2582"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2582"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2582"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}