{"id":13154,"date":"2020-02-04T12:10:05","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T12:10:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/?p=13154"},"modified":"2024-05-11T22:33:25","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T21:33:25","slug":"fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"Fear of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers come from parents, not from evolution"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<h3><strong><span class=\"s3\">Where infants and pre-schoolers show fear<\/span><span class=\"s3\">\u00a0of spiders, snakes and heights<\/span><span class=\"s3\">, it is usually related to the occurrence of the same fears in parents.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Researchers have been fascinated for years by the question of how\u00a0the fear of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers emerges.\u00a0At\u00a0eight to\u00a010 months, babies\u00a0already show particular attention towards snakes and spiders, avoid heights,\u00a0and\u00a0react to\u00a0a stranger\u2019s\u00a0approach It is highly tempting to\u00a0interpret this as fear and\u00a0attribute\u00a0it toevolution. The idea is\u00a0that these things represent danger and threaten survival, and so we have evolved to avoid them.\u00a0Psychoanalytic and attachment theories\u00a0also\u00a0offer an appealing explanation\u00a0for\u00a0the fear of\u00a0strangers. It may be too much to say that these fears are\u00a0hard-wired\u00a0from birth, but,\u00a0as one\u00a0theory goes, they\u00a0are \u201cprepared\u201d, meaning that the fears are especially easy to acquire and difficult to remove.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Researchers have\u00a0paid\u00a0particular attention to the\u00a0fear of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers, setting up innumerable experiments to show their emergence. But much of this research is flawed. Situations are set up where fear is expected,\u00a0and the child\u2019s reactions are then over-interpreted\u00a0as fear, influenced too much by how adults would expect themselves to react.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">In a review of\u00a0the evidence, two researchers have\u00a0examined and challenged\u00a0much of the research and come to a wholly different conclusion about\u00a0how\u00a0fear\u00a0of spiders and the like emerge: these\u00a0phobias\u00a0are actually picked up from parents and peers.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_79_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #121c4e;color:#121c4e\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #121c4e;color:#121c4e\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents\/#Four_challenges_to_existing_research\" >Four challenges to existing research\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents\/#The_real_source_of_the_fear_of_spiders_snakes_heights_and_strangers_parents_and_friends\" >The real source of\u00a0the\u00a0fear\u00a0of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers: parents and friends<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents\/#How_fear_emerges\" >How fear emerges\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/fear-of-spiders-snakes-heights-strangers-parents\/#How_future_research_on_fear_should_be_framed\" >How future research on fear should be framed<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Four_challenges_to_existing_research\"><\/span><span class=\"s2\">Four challenges to existing research<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The\u00a0researchers\u2019\u00a0first observation is that infants\u00a0do not show\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s3\">fear<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers, but\u00a0are\u00a0actually rather interested in them and want to explore them more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Babies do show more immediate attention to snakes and spiders, and, if the images are shown at the same time as a soundtrack of fearful voices, their\u00a0attention is even\u00a0greater.\u00a0The infants appear to be particularly interested\u00a0in\u00a0spiders and snakes. They reach out to touch a screen showing\u00a0them. They actually appear to\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s3\">like<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0spiders and snakes, spending more time peering into tanks\u00a0containing these creatures, often with faces glued to the glass.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Infants\u2019 reactions to\u00a0heights\u00a0are similar. When confronted with steep drops, slopes, bridges and gaps,\u00a0they spend\u00a0most of the time peering over the edge and exploring it with hands and feet. And while they do this, their expressions are predominantly positive or neutral. Many appear to be enjoying themselves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And\u00a0babies\u00a0often pay\u00a0increased attention\u00a0to strangers, smiling\u00a0and offering\u00a0toys. In laboratory tests, infants don\u2019t tend to react negatively to the presence of a stranger, even in an unfamiliar environment.<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The second observation\u00a0about\u00a0existing research\u00a0is that many of the reactions\u00a0that researchers\u00a0interpret as fear cannot really be considered symptoms of fear at all. Rapidly noticing and being interested in spiders and snakes is not the same as fear\u00a0of spiders and snakes. Similarly, avoiding a cliff edge does not equate with fear. As noted above, during all their exploratory probing, checking, testing and attempting, infants rarely display negative emotions. Even a raised heartbeat is not necessarily a sign of fear; the\u00a0infants are\u00a0often smiling when their heartbeat goes up.\u00a0Furthermore, a\u00a0baby does not respond more negatively to an objectively\u00a0more dangerous situation\u2014a\u00a0wider gap to cross,\u00a0say,\u00a0or a longer distance to fall. We do not tend to attribute fear to an animal\u2019s avoidance of a steep drop and, the authors argue, we should see infants in the same way.\u00a0Similarly\u00a0with strangers \u2013\u00a0displaying\u00a0a serious expression or\u00a0ceasing to\u00a0play when a stranger enters is unlikely to denote fear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The third observation is that the infant\u2019s reaction depends on the context in which the encounter is taking place. Children react more positively to strangers when they are at home\u00a0and\/or with a parent. If\u00a0a\u00a0stranger approaches\u00a0rapidly\u00a0and\u00a0then touches or tries to pick up\u00a0an\u00a0infant, the\u00a0child is\u00a0likely to respond more negatively. But even in\u00a0an experiment where infants\u00a0were\u00a0seated alone on the floor and\u00a0were\u00a0picked up by a stranger, 40% carried on smiling or were neutral.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Finally,\u00a0infants\u2019\u00a0response depends on their own temperament or abilities. Novice crawlers and walkers will walk right over a steep drop, but after\u00a0time and practice, they can tell the difference between a trivial situation and an impossible one (such as a\u00a0drop\u00a0that\u2019s\u00a0too\u00a0far or a\u00a0gap\u00a0that\u2019s\u00a0too wide). If\u00a0the obstacle is\u00a0impossible, they are likely to start exploring it, for example,\u00a0by\u00a0poking an arm or leg into the precipice or over the gap.\u00a0They\u00a0also\u00a0start looking for alternatives, such as holding a support post,or shifting their posture from upright to prone, sitting and backing positions. If they are wearing a weight on their shoulders, or\u00a0are\u00a0wearing slippery shoes, they become more cautious. In relation to strangers, some infants are temperamentally more fearful than others and tend to react more negatively.<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Ironically, despite all the attention to the growth of the fear\u00a0of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers, these fears\u00a0are actually not that prevalent at all.\u00a0Fear of spiders, snakes\u00a0and heights is not widely reported in infants or pre-schoolers. Only 5% of adults report a phobia of heights, and 3-6% report a phobia of spiders and snakes.\u00a0Fear of strangers is so rare among adults that it does not even have a name.\u00a0A related problem, social phobia\/anxiety,\u00a0affects about 11% of the population.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_real_source_of_the_fear_of_spiders_snakes_heights_and_strangers_parents_and_friends\"><\/span><span class=\"s2\">The real source of\u00a0the\u00a0fear\u00a0of spiders, snakes, heights and strangers: parents and friends<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">When\u00a0infants and\u00a0preschoolers\u00a0are afraid\u00a0of spiders, snakes and heights, it is usually related to the same fears in\u00a0their\u00a0parents. There is evidence that 89% of intense fears found in preschool-aged children come from threatening verbal information from parents or friends or seeing something in the media. Similarly, children may watch their parents responding fearfully to something and learn from that. In one experiment, 12-month-olds were more fearful about crossing over a 30cm drop when their mothers showed a fearful face, and less fearful when seeing their mothers happy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_fear_emerges\"><\/span><span class=\"s2\">How fear emerges<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The authors describe an \u201cemergent\u201d model of fear. Fear does not\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s3\">cause<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0responses.\u00a0Rather, fear\u00a0emerges from a series of appraisals\u00a0about the significance of an event. Early on, areas of the brain such as the amygdala are activated and arouse the body in preparation for\u00a0possible\u00a0action. Physiological changes like increased heart rate and sweating are registered in subsequent appraisals, combined with further interpretations of the event. Fear emerges at the end of the\u00a0process, when\u00a0a\u00a0threat is perceived\u00a0to be imminent.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_future_research_on_fear_should_be_framed\"><\/span><span class=\"s2\">How future research on fear should be framed<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The researchers recommend more\u00a0precision about defining fear. They propose the presence of a negative emotional reaction and, in addition, at least one other response, for example, a behavioural response like avoidance, or a physiological response like increased heart rate. Also, the response should increase as the threat increases. In much research, words like \u201cfear\u201d, \u201canxiety\u201d and \u201cwariness\u201d are used interchangeably.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The authors suggest that it might be more useful in\u00a0the\u00a0future to examine the different manifestations of fear in different children in response to the same situation, and then try to explain these differences.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"retrofit-references\">\n<h4>References<\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 1.8em;\"><em>\u00a0<span class=\"s3\">LoBue<\/span><span class=\"s3\">\u00a0V &amp; Adolph KE (2019),\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2019-50498-007\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s8\">Fear in infancy: Lessons from snakes, spiders, heights and strangers<\/span><\/a><span class=\"s3\">, Developmental Psychology, 55.9<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Where infants and pre-schoolers show fear of spiders, snakes and heights, it is usually related to the occurrence of the same fears in parents.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":13159,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[438],"tags":[28,267],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13154"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13154"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17884,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13154\/revisions\/17884"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}